Dating an older married man with kids

He spends time with you, and then goes home to play Daddy. It seems so obvious, yet every couple of days, there’s an email from a woman telling me how a married guy is playing them.

If you’re having sex with a married man, or sleeping with a guy that has a girlfriend, sure he has feelings for you during the sex.Yes, he has feelings for you in the heat of the moment, but if he hasn’t left his wife, children, and home, he isn’t going to. I don’t care how many trips he takes you on, or rings that he buys you. So many women fall for the fairytale idea that somehow he’s going to leave his family behind, and ride off into the sunset with you.But when the man with whom you're involved is part of another couple, someone else's husband, then the challenge and unpredictability can make your life a messy, unhappy waiting game that you will rarely win.The woman who is in love with a married man lives a life that, for the most part, is shrouded in secrecy.Nevertheless, the situation is certainly very tempting and if an irresistible woman gives even the slightest hint of opportunity, its quite likely for a man to cheat or at least, take a little pleasure for some time.

Cheating men are confident that they wont get caught if they take necessary precautions.

If you have eyes for a married guy, you’re probably sitting here looking for every excuse under the sun to rationalize what you’re thinking of doing.

Even if a cheater does leave his wife for his side chick, do you think that means he’s changed? Unfortunately, men often cheat because they have an opportunity to.

They often compensate by re-strengthening the relationship with the wife and strongly believe they can keep their affairs under the wraps.

Men who have an affair are like jackals, who seek pleasure despite the significant risk.

As a reasonable, logical person, you might look at how he’s acting and assume that he must want a divorce — otherwise, why would he treat his loved one so badly? If this is how he treats his wife, do you really think he’s going to treat you better?!