Great, as long as you know what you're getting into.
Here's how to navigate what should be a fun, hassle-free friends-with-benefits (FWB) experience.
Being friends with benefits with someone can seem like a dream come true.
This is the biggest rule and the easiest one to remember. But then again, this is also the hardest one to follow. Understand what kind of a relationship you’re getting into right from the start. You’ll end up pissing your friend with benefits or getting a bad reputation.
#6 Don’t sleep with two friends from the same group. Get interested in someone else as soon as you start having sex with your friend with benefits.
It’s too risky and you may get caught, especially if both of them are trying to exchange sly smiles and sneaky glances with you, or worse, trying to reach out to your crotch from under the table at the same time. Yes, you get to have a no strings relationship with someone. But keep that libido and enthusiasm down or you’ll end up getting bored or scaring your screw buddy away. You may be intimate with each other, but that’s no excuse to see each other in any place other than a bed. It’ll take the option of falling for them out as long as you’re infatuated by someone else. Don’t try to find out about their personal life or have conversations about life and its problems. As sexually attracted as you may be, avoid having sex with a good friend that’s good looking. Or end up having an affair when one of you is in another relationship and that can get really messy. [Read: Conversation tips to end a relationship] #13 Avoid anyone who’s seeing someone else.
You’re into each other for sex and you really should avoid involving anything else. You will lose that friend or both of you will hate each other within a few months. It may sound sexy and wicked and even give you an ego boost, but you’ll get caught or one of you will have to deal with a heavy bag of guilt that will ultimately be shared in the open. Don’t talk about your personal lives with each other. If you’re falling in love with your friend with benefits or feel like things are slipping out of hand, you owe it to your friend to at least let them know the truth so both of you can decide the course of the relationship.
This is one of the primary dangers associated with attempting to become friends with benefits, as such relationships have a tendency to leave one partner or the other with a shattered heart.
This pain can be avoided for the most part though so long as both parties just remain honest.
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