The sheer number of cack-handed replies women of Asian ancestry get on dating sites has even spawned its own dedicated tumblr, Creepy White Guys.
Hilarious if you are simply an outside observer, and probably pretty depressing if you're someone getting these messages.
The music and movie industry did a really good job in making you believe that all black women are like this: What you don’t realize is that there are many black women who would love to date a white or an Asian guy and none of them looks like the woman in the image above. It’s not beautiful, not fair and it’s anything but empowering. If he doesn’t want to change his opinion, you can start a fight to prove how much you love your girlfriend.No, they are educated woman who are looking for a good guy. She always wanted a boyfriend who sits in the wheelchair. If I wasted my energy arguing with my haters, I would have no energy to write this article.You see, a White female is more masculine, rough and independent than a typical Asian female from Asia.They need a guy who is more masculine than them, or at least is taller and looks more masculine. I know the question is subjective but the idea is that often times, your interests and experiences will dictate who you will end up dating.
You see, I’ve noticed a lot of you trying to get out into the dating world. Some of you still feel like you’re trapped in stereotypes and that no non-Asian girl will ever date you. Ben – a Chinese guy who works for Google, enjoys hiking, loves Ramen and is a fan of Naruto? Josh – a Chinese guy who works for Google, enjoys Boxing at the gym, loves sweet potato pie and goes Salsa dancing every week?
You get these gems: 'Black women are repulsive' 'Asian women are gold diggers' 'Latin women are loyal' It's pretty depressing stuff.
Admittedly, the dating game is not equal and it is not kind.
They look like this:I know, you don’t see that in the movies. You insecurities, your past experiences, your self-confidence and your self-image play a role too. I think I don’t have to tell you which choice is the better one. If you wasted your energy arguing with enemies of interracial relationships, you would have no energy to start or to maintain your relationship.I just slapped your biggest fear in your face. In one of my previous articles I answer the question “Do black girls like white men? This one article turned my inbox into a battlefield. The same thoughts that you have, keep them awake at night. What will my friends and family think when I date outside my race? She has those fears and that’s why there is a high chance that she looks for you in places that don’t allow judgement, gossip and hate to enter the room.
Lil Wayne and all the other Cash Money Records weirdos don’t show these black women in their music videos. In the end, nobody seems to care that not all black women are strippers with pink hair extensions. I want you to understand that dating a black woman for the first time can be , at least when you know what to do and what not to do. On the one hand, I received emails from black girls who stumbled upon my article and who asked me for tips to attract white guys. There are communities and sites that allow black women and white men to meet, to chat and to fall in love. The detailed case study that I wrote a couple of weeks ago will show you exactly where you have to look for the black beauty of your dreams.Don’t do it. Even if you ignore all the other advice I share with you in this article because you thought that skimming is better than reading, please don’t ignore this one piece of advice.
It seems the objectification is hardly limited to dating websites, though, as comedy videos like "What kind of Asian are you? It goes the other way as well, with women of all races preferring white men, apart from black women who prefer black men.